Summoning The Soulmate - Meditation

I've been slacking I have to admit.  I've had a really rough week, there's a lot going on in my life and I allowed it to drain me.  I've had to give myself a bit of a shake.  I don't know what went wrong really.

I think I'm in a better place now, I am aware that I need to shift my vibration to positive.

So I've turned back to my meditations. I'm trying to find some good ones for manifesting soulmates on YouTube, I've found a couple which are ok, but nothing so far that has made me really feel something.  So day by day I'm trawling through them looking for one that resonates.

If you have any suggestions they will be greatly welcomed!

I'll keep plodding through them in the mean time.

Summoning The Soulmate - Aromatherapy

Adding another one of my interests to the manifestation mix... Aromatherapy.

I know the oils won't do much on their own, but I have a theory....

I figure if I meditate while I'm holding my crystals it will charge them, and I will wear them throughout the day.   I'm adding scent to this.

I've made a pulse point balm, I've tried to use scents which are related to love.  I'm going to use it when I meditate and then apply it throughout the day and before I go to sleep.  My thinking is that the positive vibration I raise during the meditations will link in my brain to the scent.  So, when I use it while not deliberately meditating, it should set my vibrations to the positive naturally.

I found a few base recipes, and kind of mixed them up and made my own, which is...

16g Grapeseed Oil
16g Shea Butter
7g Beeswax

Then I made a blend of the following essential oils...

28 drops Ylang Ylang
14 drops Sweet Orange
14 drops Sandalwood
14 drops Cedarwood

It smells slightly manly to me, which perhaps is a good thing, it will smell like the Soulmate I am attracting ;-)

Crystals - Attracting my Soulmate

So, I've been looking into some things I can do to attract my soulmate.  I've decided to start by looking into crystals.  Crystals have always intrigued me, from when I was a kid on holiday with my parents and you'd get those little shops that sold them and shells and other crafty/alternative items.

After a little research I have come up with 2 stones, Rose Quartz and Rhodochrosite, both of which I now have in little ship bracelet form.

Rose Quartz is effective in attracting love, romance and intimacy.  It can also help to develop bonds with family and friends.  Rhodochrosite directs love towards yourself for personal healing, which let's be honest, if you are not loving yourself you can't expect anyone else to.

I'm armed with crystal bracelets, so how do I use them?  I figured the first thing I need to do is charge them with positive energies.  I found this:

http://www.soulandspiritmagazine.com/5-simple-rose-quartz-rituals-to-summon-the-perfect-valentine/

Can't hurt, can it?

The Plan

Why does it take so long to figure out what you really want?  It literally took me hours to work all this out, what do I want, who do I want to be?

I say hours, I've not just been sat there for a couple of hours, these are questions I mull over all the time, in the car, shower, any time I am alone.

I just had to narrow it down to what I really want to manifest in my life now.

I've narrowed it down to five things, I've chosen a range of things.  Two for my life, something materialistic, one cosmetic and another experience.  Then I need to think of two smaller things to add, things that I could technically manifest quite quickly.  But, let's start with the big things.

1. My Soulmate
2. An Xbox One
3. A Trip to Florida
4. Beautiful Skin
5. Be a Yoga Teacher

The Soulmate - I'm lonely.  I don't just want a relationship for that reason, I'd rather be on my own than be with someone for the sake of it.  I want the real thing, my best friend, lover and soulmate.  I want the fire, and the comfort, and I want someone to laugh with.  He will be kind, considerate, funny, he will adore me.

The Xbox One, a material item I want to see if I can manifest.  A little to see if I can, and a little because I really would love one!

A Trip to Florida, I love rollercoasters and this trip would be my ultimate holiday.  Everyone I know has been, more than once and somehow every time I get left behind.  This time it will be my turn.

Skin.  I'm suffer with psoriasis on my scalp and face.  Oh, and a bit of bacne, of all things at my age! I've used everything, and without going permanently on steriods it seems as if nothing will work.  I just want to look in the mirror and not hate what I see.

Yoga Teacher.  This one is already in progress, I started training in September.  I just love it.  I can't wait to teach, and I'm also really excited about how much there is to learn.  This will be more of a journey, than a manifestation, I think.

There you have it, now I'm off to think up my "smaller" manifestations.....

New Beginnings

Where to start?
I needed to change.  I've been unhappy for a long time, I've been single for years and nothing seemed to want to go my way.
I've been the master of my own destruction it seems.  Even my yoga practice has been struggling to give me comfort, I'm ok on the mat but not off it.

So, the question was, how do I shake it off?  How can I get myself into a space where good things happen instead of bad?

I've known about the Law of Attraction for a while, but somehow over the years have just gotten out of the habit of applying it.  Now, everything is out of sorts, a bit of a mess, if you like.

This is where I start again, wipe the slate clean.

They say practice makes perfect, so I'm starting with the basics here.  Visualisation, Gratitude, Affirmations, Positivity, I think that is the basic ground, right?

I need to take a little time to figure out what I really want to manifest in my life, also to think of a couple of really small things to prove to myself again that this really does work.

Here goes.....