Summoning The Soulmate - Meditation

I've been slacking I have to admit.  I've had a really rough week, there's a lot going on in my life and I allowed it to drain me.  I've had to give myself a bit of a shake.  I don't know what went wrong really.

I think I'm in a better place now, I am aware that I need to shift my vibration to positive.

So I've turned back to my meditations. I'm trying to find some good ones for manifesting soulmates on YouTube, I've found a couple which are ok, but nothing so far that has made me really feel something.  So day by day I'm trawling through them looking for one that resonates.

If you have any suggestions they will be greatly welcomed!

I'll keep plodding through them in the mean time.

Summoning The Soulmate - Aromatherapy

Adding another one of my interests to the manifestation mix... Aromatherapy.

I know the oils won't do much on their own, but I have a theory....

I figure if I meditate while I'm holding my crystals it will charge them, and I will wear them throughout the day.   I'm adding scent to this.

I've made a pulse point balm, I've tried to use scents which are related to love.  I'm going to use it when I meditate and then apply it throughout the day and before I go to sleep.  My thinking is that the positive vibration I raise during the meditations will link in my brain to the scent.  So, when I use it while not deliberately meditating, it should set my vibrations to the positive naturally.

I found a few base recipes, and kind of mixed them up and made my own, which is...

16g Grapeseed Oil
16g Shea Butter
7g Beeswax

Then I made a blend of the following essential oils...

28 drops Ylang Ylang
14 drops Sweet Orange
14 drops Sandalwood
14 drops Cedarwood

It smells slightly manly to me, which perhaps is a good thing, it will smell like the Soulmate I am attracting ;-)

Crystals - Attracting my Soulmate

So, I've been looking into some things I can do to attract my soulmate.  I've decided to start by looking into crystals.  Crystals have always intrigued me, from when I was a kid on holiday with my parents and you'd get those little shops that sold them and shells and other crafty/alternative items.

After a little research I have come up with 2 stones, Rose Quartz and Rhodochrosite, both of which I now have in little ship bracelet form.

Rose Quartz is effective in attracting love, romance and intimacy.  It can also help to develop bonds with family and friends.  Rhodochrosite directs love towards yourself for personal healing, which let's be honest, if you are not loving yourself you can't expect anyone else to.

I'm armed with crystal bracelets, so how do I use them?  I figured the first thing I need to do is charge them with positive energies.  I found this:

http://www.soulandspiritmagazine.com/5-simple-rose-quartz-rituals-to-summon-the-perfect-valentine/

Can't hurt, can it?